Articles & Videos

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Articles

Human Nature says YOU Are Always Right

People don’t get it! You’re always right, whatever way you choose to see things. Whenever I tell people they’re always right, many say “No, I’m not always right.” They laugh when I say; “and you’re right about not always being right.” But even though they understand...

YOU Are Number 1!

You have full responsibility for everything that happens in your life. It’s all down to you because You Are Number 1! You come first in everything because you make all the decisions. Some people may not appreciate this, and even when it comes to religion, you choose....

Do YOU Know Your Values?

All your decisions are made through your values. I have facilitated numerous workshops over the years, and the percentage of participants who don't know what their top 10 values are is disturbing. Most don’t know their top three and many have no idea of their values!...

YOU Listen from Your Past

Our listening is driven by our past experiences and future desires. During your life you have special moments when you have an experience in the now. These occur when you let go of limiting behaviours created as a result of past experiences. You don't choose to let...

Increase Your Listening Skills Resume

Do you have a first-class listening skills resume because listening is the most valuable tool you have, and despite this, most of us are not very good at it? Nevertheless, you shouldn't take my word for it, instead, check all the links given below and hear what other...

Is Your Life Possibilities?

What is the first thought in your mind when you look at the doors above? This may tell you if you are an optimist, pessimist or even a realist. Do you see possibility? Do you live in a world of possibility? A world in which if something goes wrong it doesn’t matter...

YOU! TAKE RESPONSIBILITY!

Whenever you get upset, take responsibility for your feelings. It doesn’t matter what caused them because you’re always responsible for how you react. You can’t be rational when you’re emotional. That’s how your inner child reacts. The worst thing you can do is let...

What is Your Life Purpose?

Do you know your ultimate life purpose? Do you have a dream? Are you actively travelling towards that chosen outcome? We all have something that’s consciously (or more likely subconsciously) driving us. Something that’s behind all the decisions we make. It can be said...

What Type of Leader Are YOU?

What type of leader, boss, manager, supervisor or coach are you? There are many successful leaders, but we can’t really say they’re successful until after they have achieved success. Some leaders manage to create success, move on and create success in other...

Information for Self-Analysis

There is so much information available to help with self-analysis and below are some links to a range of characteristics. The more you understand yourself the easier it is to tackle life. You learn what works for you and what doesn't. You find the ability to say 'Yes'...

Being A Perfectionist

This article is for all perfectionists or people who haven’t recognised their perfectionist traits yet. We all have them, and I’m sure many people also have other traits that have too much control over them. Please enjoy, and share in the comments, your experiences,...

Your Personal Program

A part of you that most people know so little about, is often referred to as your ego (your consciousness of your own identity), an illusory image of yourself, the id, your shadow, the subconscious or the hidden psyche. I’ll call it your PERSONAL PROGRAM - Your own...

You Always Have Choices!

Everybody has choices at any moment in time throughout their lives. Decisions you make dictate your outcomes. You can take responsibility for your choices and learn, or you can pass blame somewhere else. It’s all up to you. You always have choices. The worst thing you...

Get Results YOU Want!

People are human and we all have similar feelings and emotions. Communication with people varies according to, how others experience themselves, and how we understand ourselves. People means family, friends, work colleagues, shop salespeople, supermarket checkouts,...

Resolving Conflict 1

When one person or group has a different opinion to another person or group, there’s potential for conflict. This can lead to: Complete breakdowns in relationships The collapse of organisations And, in extreme cases, it has started wars that killed millions of people...

Resolving Conflict 2

There aren’t many people who like conflict and there are some that do. Conflict is usually caused by a difference in values. Do you know your values? Conflict occurs when one person believes strongly in something and another person believes in the opposite or...

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